In Sir Isaac Newton’s Third Law of Motion, he explains that for every action in nature there is an equal and opposite reaction. So if you are now eliciting a big response from someone and it’s really annoying you, look to the source - and that would be yourself. This is most likely occurring in a close personal relationship, Taurus. It may be that you are unwittingly running or withdrawing from someone, and that person is becoming overbearing as a way of compensating. Tailor your action to the reaction you want, and take it from there.